Change

 
“People don’t change because they decide to be better. If that happened, then New Year’s Resolutions would work.

People decide to change because they elevate their loves. And as St. Augustine said, ‘You become what you love.’

But if you can’t talk about the struggle of sin, if you can’t talk about why some loves are higher than other loves, and ordered versus disordered loves, you don’t have the moral vocabulary, the mental tool kit to think about how to be better.

And the Christian tradition gives us that”

~David Brooks